The Third Space

Why so many of us are seeking a transitional place between home and work — and, how to find your own.

When we feel stuck in a rut, it’s easy to blame the usual contenders… like, that monotonous job or the fact that you haven’t been on a holiday in over a year. Undoubtedly, these factors can contribute to the ever-lingering sense of ennui that plagues many of us. But, while most advice is focused on what you’re doing (like, taking up new hobbies), it turns out where you’re hanging out could be just as important. 

If your daily routine entails going from home to the office and straight back home again (or, just from your bed to your desk, if you WFH), it may be time to consider adding a new destination to your ‘frequently visited locations’ on Google Maps. That is, incorporating a ‘third space’ in your daily life.

What is the Third Space?

While the term ‘third space’ was coined by sociologist Ray Oldenburg in the 1980s, these places have been a crucial part of our psychogeography forever. Think, the bustling ancient Greek marketplaces, or serene 17th century Japanese teahouses. 

Unlike the transactional nature of work or the privacy of home, third spaces offer neutral ground. They're places where people from all walks of life can come together, exchange ideas, and feel part of something bigger than themselves.

In an increasingly digital, fast-paced world, they’re where real, face-to-face connection still thrives. They’re the settings for chance encounters, shared rituals (like your morning coffee run) and conversations that remind us we’re part of a community. Oldenburg argued that a healthy society depends on these informal gathering places because they help nurture social ties, civic engagement, and even mental well-being. Without them, life can feel isolating — a cycle of work, home, repeat. 

A place to call (second) home

The popularity of coworking spaces may be partially attributed to the desire for a third space — somewhere that’s more vibrant than home, but without the ‘official’ vibe of an office that makes you feel like you should be glued to your chair. And, while these are a great option, not everyone has the budget for it (or, an employer willing to pay for it). The good news is, there are plenty of other free or cost-effective options for your third space.